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Certified Professional Transformative Coaching for Women
I work with women who learned early on that....
vulnerability was unsafe,
femininity was collapse,
achievement defined worth,
pleasure and attention was shameful,
and being truly seen was annihilation;
...Women who over-identified with success, capability, and independence in order to feel safe, but at the expense of something more essential inside, which now longs to feel seen, held, and known.
I help women understand the intelligence behind these early adaptations, stop making their inner protector wrong, and gently unwind their unconscious defenses so that they can tend to the deeper shame and fear of vulnerability underneath and with time, allow the joy of their undefended essence to be shared with life and in love.
Through a combination of high-quality transformational coaching, biologically-informed relationship skills, and relational wisdom that challenges modern cultural narratives about men and love, I can help you unravel your armor, let love in, and experience that your undefended heart is the safest and most powerful place you can be.
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Reconnect with the feminine — not as a stereotype, but as a lived experience of safety, joy, undefended love, and feeling at home in your body.
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Heal the mother/daughter split. Redefine your understanding of the feminine— not as collapse, nor through the male-gaze.
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Break free from productivity- and control-based worth and heal patterns of over-functioning and hyper-self-reliance
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Transition from survival-based identity to relaxed, embodied womanhood. Experience your femininity as powerful, dignified, and whole.
Heal your inner separation from the feminine
Restore trust in the masculine & take radical responsibility in love.
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Release resentment, victimhood, and distrust with the masculine so that you can stop perpetuating cycles of disappointment, and start opening to love, goodness, and joy.
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Take radical responsibility in love — shift from waiting for him to change to owning the power of your own influence to create (or sabotage) the intimacy you want.
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Rewire habitual disconnection from your own vulnerability. Learn how to reveal feelings and desires cleanly—without emasculation, criticism, control, or emotional withdrawal.
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Transcend a "fairness" rhetoric that keeps you locked in bitterness — reclaim the creational power of your womanhood.
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Learn how to communicate without managing, emasculating, hinting, or crossing into your man's territory so that he can stop protecting himself from you and start moving towards you.
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Learn how to evoke your man's instinct to protect, provide and lead so that you can turn off your alpha mode and rest in his frame
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Learn how to stay in your lane, refraining from managing, directing, or “helping” your man so that you can receive the support you say you want.
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Rewire your pattern of fear-based spiraling by learning how to reveal your heart to your man in a way that empowers him to solve your problems for you
Learn bio-logical communication with men
Awaken instinct & align with your female design
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Align with the life-giving wisdom of your body, emotions & female biology rather than the anti-life narratives and timelines of modern culture.
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For women longing for love, learn how to date for marriage, not for a good time — filter out unavailable men through learning how to cleanly and responsibly reveal your heart
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Awaken instinct — Learn how to deeply trust and listen to your body, womb, and emotions in life and in love so that you can stop giving your power away
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Heal shame around your body, desire, pleasure, and receiving—emotionally and sexually
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Feel safer being seen in your heart and feminine essence. Receive appreciation, compliments, or attention without deflecting or collapsing
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Embrace the joy of your feminine power — share the gift of your radiance with your man and the world again
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Expand your capacity to endure the high-nervous system sensation of penetrating masculine presence so that you can attract a partner who evokes your trust, openness, and devotion and receive the attention you say you want
Release shame.
Expand your capacity to receive. Inhabit your feminine power.
Create from Soul
in service to Life
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Embrace the creational role and power of your womanhood on this planet— your ability to receive divine inspiration, gestate, birth & magnify beauty in service to Thriving Life.
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Liberate your gifts from the shadow animus (inner masculine tyrant) so that creation no longer comes from pressure, proving, or force
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Break free from our culture’s compulsive, materialistic ethos and reconnect with the guidance of your Soul
About Brielle Elise, MA — Scholar of Myth, Certified Professional Transformational Coach
I am a Certified Professional Transformational Coach serving women, men, and couples in private practice for 10 years. I offer high-quality transformational coaching alongside embodied, relational, and soul-based group work to midwife women along the arc of feminine maturation — helping them to heal survival adaptations, soften defenses, awaken instinct, and “undefend” their heart in love. My speciality is supporting women and couples to transform dissatisfying, near-divorce relationships into revitalized partnerships through high-quality conflict resolution, biological communication, and countercultural interventions in love. My coaching has saved multiple marriages, and clients often tell me that my support is better than any therapy they’ve received.
My approach draws from trainings, apprenticeships, and supervisions with clinical psychologists, therapists, and master relationship coaches; thousands of hours of client sessions and life-changing transformational seminars; post-graduate study in the mythopoetic imagination under mythologist Dr. Martin Shaw; and the salt and grit of my own initiations in life & love.
At some point in early life, a woman will disconnect from her essence and then spend the rest of her life chasing anything and everything but what she already has— her own essence.
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