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Exalting the Masculine
Consultations for Men on Women & Love
Demystify the feminine • Find peace • Unlock her respect & devotion
As a woman, I cannot coach you on your masculinity— only you can do that— but I can reveal to you what women want, and more deeply, what women need beneath what we say we want, and through this, help you give yourself permission to reclaim what you left behind.
Maybe this sounds familiar:
You give in when you want to say no and feel resentful later...
You bend over backwards to please her, but she seems to grow more unhappy...
You repeatedly feel criticized, like you're always doing something wrong...
You withdraw to protect yourself and find peace but she gets more dissatisfied...
You feel unseen and unappreciated for all you do...
It seems like nothing you ever do is enough….
Raised in a feminist culture, many men do not allow themselves to embody their penetrative power, leadership, and, at times, sacred "no" in relation to women for fear of being perceived as controlling or oppressive. You were taught that being a good partner means being agreeable, accommodating, endlessly available, and emotionally responsive. And yet — the more you try to accommodate her every need, mood, or insecurity, the more restless, dissatisfied, or chaotic the relationship seems to become...
What few other relationship coaches will tell you is that what a woman most deeply wants is not that you fulfill her endless desires. That will only make her more insecure and unhappy, for reasons that she herself may not even fully understand…
What a woman most deeply craves and needs (beneath what she says she wants) is that you are resolute in your own truth, direction, and purpose, even or especially if it means saying “no” to her.
This is because what confers safety to a woman's nervous system more than anything else is your integrity + your inability to be controlled by her. A woman's body relaxes when she knows her man cannot be overpowered even by herself.
"The greatest gift a man can give a woman is her inability to control him."
— Gillian Pothier
This is not about overpowering a woman, withholding love, or asserting authority over her. This is about creating biological, psychological, and spiritual safety for her through the containment of your self-leadership.
A man who is resolute in his truth—who can say no without withdrawal, cruelty, or collapse— embodies contact with a consciousness beyond himself. He is not orienting himself around her changing emotional field; he is orienting himself around Truth, and this feels fundamentally trustable and safe to women.
Through down-to-earth conversations and countercultural wisdoms on women and love, I can assist you in giving yourself permission to reclaim the power, boundaries, and leadership that will liberate your woman into her heart, so that you can stop protecting yourself from her and start feeling drawn to her again.
Demystify the feminine.
Reclaim your power.
Unlock her respect and devotion.
$150 per session
Discounts for 3- and 6-month packages.
Packages can be combined with couples sessions or family packages for deepened transformation.
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About Brielle Elise, MA — Scholar of Myth, Certified Professional Transformational Coach
I am a Certified Professional Transformational Coach serving women, men, and couples in private practice for 10 years. My speciality is supporting women, men, and couples to transform dissatisfying, near-divorce relationships into revitalized partnerships through high-quality transformative coaching, biological communication, and countercultural interventions in love. My coaching has saved multiple marriages, and clients often tell me that my support is better than any therapy they’ve received.
My approach draws from trainings, apprenticeships, and supervisions with clinical psychologists, therapists, and master relationship coaches; studies in biological communication and healthy relations with men; thousands of hours of client sessions and life-changing transformational seminars; and the salt and grit of my own initiations into the mysteries of love.
A man’s no can often feel safer and more satisfying than his yes...
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