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the only one for me is you & you for me_ _#couplesphotography #oahuphotographer #sandiegop

Healing the Dance of 

Masculine & Feminine

Certified Professional Relationship Coaching for Couples

Transform breakdowns into breakthroughs

Final couples openings before May 2026 sabbatical

Discount until February 14th

My work helps men and women remember the ancient truth that we need each other to become fully who we are.

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I help couples transform dissatisfying, near-divorce relationships into revitalized partnerships through high-quality transformative coaching, biologically-informed communication skills, and countercultural interventions in love. My facilitation has saved multiple marriages, and clients often tell me that my support is better than any therapy they’ve received.

I can help you:
 

  • Break recurring cycles of misunderstanding, disconnection, and frustration
     

  • Uncover the hidden relational dynamics and interlocking sensitivities shaping your conflicts
     

  • Turn breakdowns into breakthroughs — transform conflict into deeper closeness, mutual understanding and revitalized intimacy
     

  • Shift from projection and reactivity to conscious relating and radical responsibility in love
     

  • Use the tensions in your relationship as catalysts for personal growth, reclaiming lost parts of yourselves and becoming more of who you are
     

  • See the perfect design of your relationship and the distinct roles you play in each other’s unfolding
     

  • Learn empathic and biologically attuned ways of communicating that create greater safety, ease, and cooperation in your relationship and family life

For women...

  • Understand how control, criticism, or escalation block the masculine presence you long for
     

  • Learn how to relate from your heart’s truth rather than your armor — express vulnerability and need without collapse, blame, or manipulation
     

  • Release a pain-body of mistrust and resentment toward the masculine that perpetuates cycles of disappointment
     

  • Learn how to open to receive love and masculine presence
     

  • Stop over-functioning, mothering, or managing your man and the relationship so that you can receive the support you say you want
     

  • Learn how to communicate biologically with your man so that he can stop protecting himself from you and starting moving toward you
     

  • Learn how to activate your man’s inborn instinct to protect, provide, and lead so that you can turn off your alpha mode and rest in his frame
     

  • Let go and trust larger than yourself

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For men...

  • Demystify the feminine
     

  • End the cycle of appeasement, withdrawal, or silent resentment that erodes attraction and respect
     

  • Find peace — Stop outsourcing your authority to her moods, needs, or approval
     

  • Learn to stay present and grounded in front of feminine emotion without fixing, collapsing, or defending
     

  • Restore desire, attraction, and intimacy by ending guilt-driven appeasement and fear-based self-betrayal
     

  • Come into deeper approval of your masculine gifts of leadership, direction, healthy dominance, containment, and your sacred "no"
     

  • Learn how to preserve your peace and melt her defenses through contained, conscious presence
     

  • Learn when not to engage — and how that restraint creates safety in her rather than abandonment
     

  • Embrace her challenge as the transformation that the world is asking of you​

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"The old world died because men and women forgot that we needed each other..." — Pat McCabe

Who this work is not for:
 

  • Individuals who are not ready to step out of victim consciousness, take radical responsibility for their experience of the relationship, or engage in an honest inventory of their role in hidden dynamics
     

  • Individuals who are not willing to work hard on their individual self-realization, and the work of the relationship
     

  • Couples where one person is dragging the other to coaching
     

  • Women who want to remain locked in resentment towards the masculine that would rather be right than be loved
     

  • Men who want to stay in the endlessly appeasing nice-guy program
     

  • Individuals who are mentally unstable

the only one for me is you & you for me_ _#couplesphotography #oahuphotographer #sandiegop

Final couples openings before May 2026 sabbatical

Transform breakdowns into breakthroughs:

3 couples sessions for $790 (save $336)
Discount until February 14th

Deepen closeness.
Revitalize intimacy.
Transform breakdowns into breakthroughs.


$375 per couples session (~3 hrs)
Discounts for 3- and 6-month packages.
Packages can be combined with individual sessions for deepened transformation.

Learn more about my 1:1 work with women and men.
 
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About Brielle Elise, MA — Certified Professional Transformational Coach

I am a Certified Professional Transformational Coach serving women, men, and couples in private practice for 10 years. My speciality is supporting couples to transform dissatisfying, near-divorce relationships into revitalized partnerships through high-quality transformative coaching, biologically-informed communication, and countercultural interventions in love. My coaching has saved multiple marriages, and clients often tell me that my support was better than any therapy they’ve received.

I believe the purpose of relationships is self-realization — to become more fully who we are — and I support clients in this through a stance of radical responsibility in love.

My approach draws from trainings, apprenticeships and supervisions with clinical psychologists, therapists, and master relationship coaches; thousands of contact hours in client sessions and transformational seminars; studies in biological communication and sexual-spiritual interdependency; and 10 years of the salt and grit of my own couples work, navigating the initiations of love.

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